Saturday, January 31, 2015

Truth, love , and other wars

“Man is not, by nature, deserving of all that he wants. When we think that we are automatically entitled to something, that is when we start walking all over others to get it.”
― Criss JamiDiotima, Battery,


We raise our children telling them they deserve everything they got, and they can reach and grab anything they want ....  " you deserve this, cause you re special !! Don t ever forget that !! "   And praise is not a sin ..... We are each and every one of us : special     We can shape our destiny, we can be reborn like Phoenix and we can do it all, we can have it all  

We are thou , totally unaware, giving up power ...there are three main things, again accomplisments, that more than anything else, tells us : yes, you deserve it !    But only one of the three is rightly doing it ..... Which one did you think of ? .....
Money , which success means ,  and it s what success is .... is one of them ..... And irronically, the cheapest one , i want to laugh !!! Money may be the easiest of all things to get in life , but hey the most praised and seeked for.   We should strive for value, rather than success    How many out there are not speaking to one of their own ?   We d fight over money with our brother . We ve long sold our souls .   "Success plus Self-esteem equals Pretensions!!!! " it looks a lot like pretence   You may pretend awhile but it can t last for as long as love does  

Gaining praise for your intelligence, real or perceived, is another one that make you feel entitled   Being a genius sure is in our limited mind, something to feel proud for, hence above others   Perceived intelligence gives most of us a higher job , a position of authority,  the air of God     We can do things, all of a suddden is up to us to live the moment    There are no concequences .    But sure, there are  : we maybe be having the freedom to take a choice .... but we re not free of  those choices consequences     Everything you do will find its way back to you.

And than there s love .
Would that there were an award for people who come to understand the concept of enough. Good enough. Successful enough. Thin enough. Rich enough. Socially responsible enough. When you have self-respect, you have enough.
And having it - the respect for yourself , is enough to be loved    Or so it should be   So many of us are getting it by shouting it out loud    " you want that person ?  You go and get him/ her !!!   I almost said get it !  Ha !    I say the greatest loves are never told    Are kept untouched / not stained , inside   If that love grows into reality , is because them hearts met halfway      " What we do upon some great occasion will probably depend on what we already are; and what we are will be the result of previous years of self-discipline."  
I am feeling like i m under discipline    From myself   And thats not to say I was ...  I , enough a lot of times, lived the moment, breathed in the air and than , happy, letted go .... It felt good    
"When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving one's self, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what world calls a romance."    Yeah, this makes me smile    It makes you too    You smile when i say the truth   Thats how I catched you up one time too many   


You did it ? You go and own it !! 
It is the highest form of self-respect to admit our errors and mistakes and make amends for them. To make a mistake is only an error in judgment, but to adhere to it when it is discovered shows infirmity of character..... Don t like bragging    Telling me what you intend to do does not change my life  

Of course, and undoubtly so , love is the hardest to achieve of all   " you deserve the kind of love that you are ready to give  "     But the kind of entitlement love gives us is the real one to have   It throws humility into the mix and that reminds us of what real means , of the important things    Of feeling that transcends infinity   I will not give up on that   


Love ! 




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